Sylvia’s birthday part II

Our little Sylv’s 3rd birthday was a hit.  After we put the kids to bed, Bryan and I sat down and looked at the pictures from the day Sylvia was born.  You can see her tiny baby pictures here on Flickr.  Hard to believe that she was ever that small, but it’s clearly the same little person!

It sounded like Sylvia had a great day at Donna’s.  She said that all her friends sang to her, and she even got some gifts.  Fairies!

Here’s some pictures of our evening.  More are available in the gallery.

Here’s some pics of today’s cake making.

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Mmm cake batter.  The recipe is here.  I’ve hit upon a new standard for cakes.  This is going to be my go-to cake recipe from now on.

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Frosting in-progress.  I decided to use the Smitten Kitchen’s Swiss Buttercream.  It was fun to make and deeeelish!

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The final result.  A girl’s purple cake as requested.

02-11-11_SylviasBirthday_020Sylvia requested spaghetti and tofu with peas on the side for her birthday supper.  And she got to eat off the “I’m special today” red plate.  Afterward, we retired to the living room for some present opening.  Here’s she’s admiring some little bunnies.

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Opening a fairy wing/long glove/wand set that Bryan and I found recently.

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Andrew got a gift too.  Granny and Grandad got him this cash register for Christmas, but it was back-ordered and only arrived yesterday.  It worked out perfectly because he was kinda bummed when he saw the stack of presents that Sylv was going to get to open.  “I wish I got a present too!” he moaned.  Then he smiled really big when I told him that there was indeed one for him.  He spent the evening adding numbers on the cash register’s calculator.

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Sylv got a fairy dress in the mail today from her great-Grandma Jo.

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Here she’s casting a flying spell on me.

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I love this picture.  And I love this girl.

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Granny made a new mattress along with a blanket and pillow for the crib.  Sylv put it straight to work.

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Lola Mae doll tries out the new bedding.

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And Ellie gets the pillow and blanket.

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With the presents all opened, we headed into the kitchen for some cake.

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Yum, yum!  This time instead of eating all the frosting and leaving the cake, she ate all the cake and left the frosting.  One never knows.

02-11-11_SylviasBirthday_103I’m excited to have a three-year-old in our home again.  Can’t wait to see what the year will hold for our little girl.  Love her soooo much!

Sylvia Dotzour turns Three!

Hidey ho there, neighbors!

My little girl woke up this morning, a freshly minted Three.  Remarkable!

She’s spending the day at Donna’s (daycare) where they had a cake and balloons.  When we arrived (a little late today as there was some extra morning activities around here), all the kids were hiding and jumped out to yell, “Surprise!”  Ahh, birthdays are fun.

Andrew has been so sweet and loving toward her.  I personally recall some March 19ths in years past when I was, oh, shall we say a little jealous, of all the attention that Michael Jacob Babler was receiving.  Not so for Mr. Andrew.  That makes it extra-nice.

I’m home sans kids today, working on a photo class I’ll be leading, wedding contracts for this summer, and a beautiful photo order.  With a kitty by my side, I’m having a great day too.

Then I remembered that I needed to make a cake.  Sylvia suggested a yellow cake with purple frosting.  I made my mom’s buttermilk cake for the SuperBowl party last weekend (“Go Pack!”), so I wanted to try something new.  For those of you who don’t know me, I have issues repeating the same recipe.

Deb Perelman from The Smitten Kitchen is one of my favorite food writer/photographers, and she specializes in cakes.  So when I saw that she had a “Best Birthday Cake” recipe, I had to try it.  Funny thing, it’s almost identical to my mom’s buttermilk cake.  We’ll see how it turns out.

I enjoyed whipping it up solo.  Not having kids around:

a) made the job faster

b) made the job feel more luxurous

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c) meant that I got to lick the beater, spoon, and bowl all myself.

No lunch necessary today.

I’m looking forward to frosting it!

Here’s a little video I made of Sylv trying on her new birthday shoes.  A few weeks ago she told me she wanted purple shoes for her birthday.  I was curious what she was thinking, so we shopped on Zappos together.  It was a bonding experience.  I sent the link of her favorite pair to Granny, and she went ahead and got them for her.  Good thing too as about the first thing out of Sylvia’s mouth this morning was, “Where are my birthday shoes?”

Enjoy!

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First taste of dance class

Sylvia was so beautifully excited and full of happy anticipation about her first ballet class.  We got her geared-up with her leotard and slippers last week, and since then she’s been counting down the days.  We’re taking her class at the NE YMCA.  Here’s some cute pictures of her and Celia (and Ceila’s cousin Nida) as they were getting ready.

Think Sylv is excited?

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Just look at Celia’s beautiful lashes and lips.  <sigh>

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Getting her skirt pinned in the back.

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Nida (Celia’s cousin) is a bit too young for ballet, but she very much was interested in the action.

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Sylv tiptoes her way into the studio.

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Celia skips in past her instructor.

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The kids were on their own with the instructor in the studio, so I peeked in a narrow window to catch some images of our girls as they experienced their first class.

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<aaak> They’re holding hands!

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This may be my favorite picture ever.  The sweetness is almost too much to bear.

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Little girls practicing their stretches.

01-10-11_Ballet_034 Little girls practicing first pliés (which, I have just now learned how to spell).

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Oh!  First position!

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And then class was done.  The girls skipped out and excitedly received stickers.

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Second favorite photo of the day.  Toddler legs, swirly skirts, and ballet slippers…too much!

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I think Celia had fun!

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Post-lesson, the girls spent a while singing and dancing together to spend some of their excess dancing happiness.

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🙂

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Ring around the Rosie…

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So cute!

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Weee hoooo!  These girls are pretty happy!

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Sounds like the parents get to come in to watch during the final class (on February 21st).  I think I’ll have to take some video that day!

Hope this gave you a smile!

Ballerina Girl

My little girl starts her first ballet class today.  She’ll be taking 1/2 hour classes at the YMCA on Mondays through February.  Last week, she and I went shopping for her dance gear together.  It really is fun to have a little partner to run errands with.  She is such a fun little person, and my days are colorful and interesting because she is a part of them:)

She picked out the leotard instantly.  “The one with the black bow!”  Then when we went to Payless for the shoes, she tried them on and traipsed and sashayed all around the store.  Here’s a few pictures of my very excited ballerina girl.

These toes.  I just can’t get enough of this tip-toeing beslippered toes.

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Can you tell she’s excited?  She is.

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She was ready to get in the car and go to class right now.  The idea of “next week” doesn’t really register as much for her two-year-old self.

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She was demonstrating various spins and jumps for me.

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Agh!  Again with the the toes!

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This girl makes my heart go pitter pat.  With her lopsided haircut and her new ballerina headband.  Just look at the way her sweet hands are curls together.  Excitement.  Self-consciousness.  Anticipation.  Tender, hopeful heart.

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When I asked for a smile (something I don’t tend to do!), here’s what I got.  oh, she’s so grown up, it kinda stabs my heart a little.  But I couldn’t be happier with who she is and who she’s becoming.  It’s an exciting adventure, raising children and witnessing their maturation.  What beautiful little people they are.

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I hope her first foray into the land of ballet classes is all that my little one wishes it to be.  Cheers to you, little ballerina girl!

Sylvia’s tree trunk fairy house

One of my favorite Christmas gifts this year is a wooden tree trunk doll house Sylvia got.  There’s been a lot of fairy play.  Andrew’s Schleich animals come to visit too.  The velociraptor insists that he’s come to be friendly.

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12-28-10_PostChristmas_010 And these fairy dolls.  So cute!

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Sylvia recites

Quick little story:

This morning, Sylvia was sitting at the breakfast table alone while I went to get dressed.  From my bedroom, I hear her clear little voice reciting,

“Baby was TWO YEARS OLD and never wanted to come in for dinner and never wanted to take a bath.  When grandma visited, said bad words!

But at night time Mama would crawl across the floor and look up over side of his bed.  Pick up that great big boy and slowly rocked back and forth back and forth back and forth.

Sang, ‘Love you forever, I’ll like you for always, as long as I’m living, my baby you’ll be.'”

I think my heart stopped a little while I listened.  We haven’t read that book (I’ll Love You Forever) in weeks.  And I had no idea that she knew any of the words, much less a whole (somewhat mixed up) segment of the book.  Amazing!  I so wanted to covertly video her, but it was fleeting, and I knew if she saw me she’d stop.

My girl is two months shy of three, and I’m starting to see a lot more of a preschooler in my toddler!

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For those of you not familiar with the story Sylvia was reading, here’s a link to the text. <sob>

Sibling love

This is a two-part post about the Andrew/Sylvia relationship as I saw it this morning:

Part I – The good

Andrew and Sylvia are so cute together!  They wake up and rush for their vitamins.  They dole them out for each other, and then they leap about exclaiming in mutual glee what they want for breakfast.  Sylvia carefully watches Andrew and mimics his expressions and his moves. Except when he’s mimicking her.  After breakfast this morning, they crawled into Andrew’s bed.  She snuggled down under the comforter next to him, and he read her a couple chapters of Frog and Toad.  I leaned on the door frame and took in the beauty and comfort of their relationship.  The way Sylvia adores Andrew.  The joy he gets from her company.  It’s such a wonder and a gift that they have each other.

Part II – The not-so-good

Moments after stumbling out of bed and greeting each other, the conflict begins.  Sylvia wants a purple spoon with her breakfast.  One of the COVETED purple spoons.  Andrew says that both the purple spoons should stay in the drawer until they can use them together (he already has an orange spoon).  Sylv persists.  Andrew holds the silverware drawer closed with his body.  Sylvia pulls hard on to open it.  Voices are raised.  Sylvia shrieks.  The kids have been awake for about 4 minutes, and I’m threatening to get rid of both purple spoons if there is any more conflict over the stupid purple spoons.  Andrew demures.  Sylvia gets the purple spoon <Note to self: Andrew gets the purple spoon next.>
The kids sit down at breakfast and begin laughing and giggling about a thumbs up/thumbs down game they’re playing.  Suddenly, they’re not on the same page.  Andrew’s giving something a thumbs down.  Sylvie isn’t happy.  Andrew begins frowning, grunting, and saying, “No.  NO. NO!”  Sylvia starts to yell something.  “Yes!!!”  “NOOOO!”  “YESSSSS!!!!”  Just when I’m about to end breakfast and have them take turns eating since they obviously can’t seem to do it together, they work it out, and it’s on to the next thing.

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Is it any wonder that I sometimes feel a little dizzy?

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Autumn outings

October slipped by.  Our tree in our front yard turned the most amazing golden color this year.  When the sun shone through the leaves, I was mesmerized.  I don’t think that there could be a more beautiful site.  The kids liked it too, and I made up a story for them about how Bryan and I take our extra money and make it into gold and store it in the tree just so that for a few glorious days in the fall we can see what happens when leaves turn into papery thin pieces of gold.

Below, you’ll see some pictures of some late-October outings we took.

This is a pile of nuts that Sylvia found and stuffed into my pockets while we went for a walk:

Silly girl on the trail.

And there’s Andrew back when he had curls…

The kids and I were hiking at Kagonza State Park.  We’d gone the night before to attend a night-time walk with the trail lit by jack-o-lanterns.  However as we were walking in, Andrew (who was running) tripped and scraped up his elbow.  It was game over, and we all piled back into the car and headed home.  So the next morning, I thought we’d try again.

Sylvia’s red mark on her nose is from where she fell down the front porch steps and landed on her face.  No permanent damage done.

Andrew pretends to chop down a sapling.  Note that Sylvie has Poodle stuffed down her pants:)

Here’s a different day…our last outing to the apple orchard.

Sylvia wore swim suits every day all summer.  As the weather turned cold, she still wore them but added warmer items like a hat and mittens.  Then she started wearing clothes on top of the swimming suits.  When Bryan packed all the suits up and put them in the basement a few weeks ago, there amazingly wasn’t a whisper of complaint!

Sorry this picture is rotated funny.  Here it is corrected.   I love when the two of them are sitting together on the front step, enjoying each other’s company.  Plus, just look at Andrew’s curls!

Some painting…


Alivia lost her first tooth!

Enjoying some Culver’s left-overs

Here we’re taking a trip to Schuster’s Playtime Farm near Cambridge with Jessica and Celia.

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Two girls enjoying the fences.  Sylvia is so non-phased by large livestock that (as her mother) it’s almost disturbing.

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Hello, chicken!

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Hair cuts!

A couple weeks ago, Andrew and Sylvia turned a quiet afternoon into a self-hair cutting extravaganza.

It was after school on a wet day, and Andrew and Sylvia wanted to watch a show.  I had some photography phone calls to make, so I agreed.  They also wanted to do some art projects, so I helped them get paper and crayons and paper.  And then I sat down at the kitchen table to work and make calls.

Andrew came in a couple times to get snacks.

And then I didn’t see them for a while.

The quiet had a funny sound to it, so I went into the living room to check on them.

And then I screamed.

I slapped my hands to either side of my face as if I was trying to hold my head together.

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Lying on the floor was about four cups of Andrew’s curls.  And both Andrew and Sylvia had their scissors up to their heads and were looking at me wide-eyed in mid-cut.

Sylvia dropped her scissors from her trimming and clapped her hands over her ears.

I kept my hands holding my head together as I surveyed the scene, muttering something like, “Ohmygosh, ohmygosh, whatwereyouTHINKING???  OK OK OK OK Ok ok ok ok WHAT WERE YOU THINKING!?!?”

Sylvia is looking at me with shock and alarm, and Andrew is looking at me, with his very shorn head, with confidence and righteousness.  No contriteness there.

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I considered making him go around for a few days with the haircut he gave himself, but knowing him, he would think that was great.  And even if the kids at school thought he looked funny, he probably wouldn’t care.  And then perhaps I’d be stuck with him wearing this ridiculous mullet-type cut.  So I sadly sat him down and finished the job.

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Really, there’s nothing wrong with his short cut.  It’s just a short boy cut.  But oh, his curls!  And the humanity of it all!

I told him that in the future if he wants his hair cut, HE NEEDS TO ASK FIRST.  I’m curious when and if we’ll see his lovely curls again.

Sylvia’s cut was less dramatic, so for the first day or so afterward, I didn’t even really notice it.  But then I realized that all her curls on the right side of her head had been lopped off.  She didn’t shear it off close to the scalp (thank heavens), but she’s got a whole area of her head with hair about an inch long.

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For a little pop-culture reference, Sylvia’s ‘do actually reminds me a little of Rhiana…

She’s oh, so trendy!

Oh well.  It’s just hair and it grows back.  And now that the trauma is in the past, I’ve mostly recovered.

And the scissors?  They’ve been removed from circulation!

First Halloween Party

On Sunday, Andrew and Sylvia and I attended a Halloween bash at a preschool friend’s home.  It was so much fun!  They went totally overboard with the decorations and activities and costumes.  A wizard came and gave a show to a rapt audience.  And the kids and I ate a truly exceptional quantity of cupcakes, jello, cookies, candies, cheese puffs, and other delectables.

Here’s the entrance to their back yard…

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The family graveyard…

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Moments after arriving, the kids consume (the frosting only) of cupcake #1.

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Here’s Andrew’s friend Olivia from preschool.  She’s a cute purple kitty.

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Here’s Sylvia hunting for some lollipop ghosts.  The scab on her nose is from a dive she took off the front steps (onto concrete) a week ago).

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During the magic show, I had fun photographing the crowd.

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What great costumes!

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YUM.  Cheese puffs.  My kids didn’t realize that the world held such flavors:)

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There’s the vets, Mike and Laura with the purple kitty Olivia and the pink pumpkin Haley.

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The weather was perfect…warm and clear.  But as night fell, the fire sure felt nice!

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What great decorations and what a great party!  Thanks guys, for a great evening!!

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