Dinosaur train

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It’s a quiet Friday morning here in the Dotzour home.  Bryan made me coffee, and I’m finishing up my cup of latte while Andrew is watching a little PBS.  We’ve had morning activities every day this week, so today we’re taking it slow.  Andrew’s come up with the idea that on Fridays we’ll go to Bryan’s office and have lunch with him, so we’re going to start that tradition today.

Sylvia, who has no interest in the television, is bringing me dollies to put to “nigh nigh.”  That’s great with me.  Pediatricians recommend no television before age two.

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Sid the Science Kid and his gang

Our favorite PBS shows are Sesame Street, Sid the Science Kid, and Super WhySid the Science Kid is a cute show about a kid who loves learning about how the world works.  He makes lots of hypotheses and does experiments.  Good stuff!  Andrew loves Super Why…a show that helps teach kids things from letter recognition to reading easy words to rhyming to reading and spelling.  It’s perfectly suited to Andrew’s current interest (obsession) with beginning reading.  Although, come to think of it, we haven’t seen either of these shows most of the summer.

This morning we turned on the television set a bit before Sesame Street started, and we saw a new show called Dinosaur Train. It made me smile and laugh enough that I thought I’d share it with you.  We’ve been watching (sigh) The Land Before Time VIII recently, and while there’s nothing wrong with it, I’m not really a fan.  Dinosaur Train was particularly fun because it dealt with similar themes about friendship and life-lessons, but it was much nerdier and made me laugh.

superwhy-book-castThe show follows a young T. rex who is best friends with a (not really a dino) Pteranodon and is being raised by her family.  The two of them have silly adventures, and they talk a lot about what different dinos ate and what that meant about how they lived.  Sort of paleontology for four-year-olds.  One thing I thought was cool was that there’s a train that runs through several time tunnels from the Cretaceous to the Triassic and Jurassic periods.  They take the train to the different periods to meet new dinosaurs and to learn about them.

Here’s an article on the show for those who are interested in finding out more.

Now, off to our Friday!  Hope yours is a good one!

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What our children teach us

I haven’t purchased that many books on child rearing…I check out lots from the library, but I’ve only bought a select few.  In some cases I buy them because I think I’ll want to refer back to them many times, or in this case, because they’re so wonderful that I know I’ll want to lend them to friends and to sip their goodness again and again.

Yesterday, I pulled from my shelf the book Mitten Strings for God: Reflections for Mothers in a Hurry by Katrina Kennison.  For my many secular friends, don’t fear, there’s no religious overtones:)  One of the book’s reviews says, “Inspirational and life-affirming, it offers reminders of what is of lasting value, such as grace, love, tranquility.”  I agree.

This afternoon, I flipped the book open and found myself reading the following passage.  It rang true, so I thought I’d share.

The fact is I’ve learned an enormous amount from both my children.  Different lessons from two very different temperaments, all of them valuable.  But it is true that Jack—forty-two pounds of spirit, vulnerability, curiosity, and sheer life force—has been my most demanding teacher, exposing all my weaknesses and requiring me to develop even greater fortitude.  In his passionate, head-long rush into life, he has shown me exactly where my rope ends, where my patience runs out, where my edges fray, where my own outer limits really are.  He taught me that in order to be an effective  and loving disciplinarian, I must first be able to control myself.

Sylvia’s, er, outbursts don’t often make me lose my temper.  More often I’m like a deer in headlights, carrying her around or sitting near her with a blank expression on my face and no ideas of what to do to make the situation better.   Her passions don’t tend to ignite my own, but they do make me lose my mind a bit.

A couple days ago, during our first down-pouring rain of the fall, Sylvia threw her…I don’t know…fourth tantrum of the morning, and I really kind of lost it.  We were walking home from Andrew’s preschool.  I plunked her in the soaking stroller, put her rain cover on, and walked her home.  She screamed, and I swore under my breath the whole way.  It was a low point.  As I was stomping home through the pouring rain with a leaky umbrella, I remember thinking that all of us have had unpleasant co-workers that make us want to change jobs.  It was too bad that mine was my own child.

But we got home, and I retrieved her poodle and paci (who have the power to soothe her when nothing else can).  Then I picked up my sweet, wet, shaky girl, and she put her little arms around her contrite, wet, shaky mom, and both of us held each other until we felt better.  Then we held each other a lot longer.  She’s a wonderful baby, an adorable kid.  And she’s making me a stronger person.  Look out world, here she comes!

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Mad Men

Bryan and I started watching the series Mad Men this week on Netflix.  We love it!  It’s a TV show about the advertising world on Madison Avenue in the 1960s.  The costumes and sets are wonderful, the dialogue is sharp and fast, and I care about the characters…even as they (already in the third episode of the first season) are on fast-tracks to destroy themselves.

Other favorite shows of ours include Six Feet Under, the first few seasons of Alias, The 4400, Dead Like Me, Battlestar Galactica, Deadwood, Firefly, Lost, Rescue Me, and Sex in the City.

At some point, we may watch The Wire, Rome, and that one about the capitol…West Wing.  Any recommendations from you?

Opportunity to support Andrew’s preschool!

Andrew goes to a simply wonderful preschool.  It’s a non-profit, parent cooperative, and it’s very play-oriented and low-key and loving.  Since school started, Andrew’s been riding his bike to school (since it’s a block from our house!), and he’s once again LOVING it.

I think Monona Grove Nursery School is so great that I joined the board of directors this summer.  Being the treasurer has been a lot of work, but it feels so rewarding to be helping to run a school that is doing so many great things for so many kids.

As a not-for-profit organization, the school relies on fund-raisers as well as student tuition to make ends meet.  Would you, lovely reader, consider supporting this great organization either with a donation of $10 (or more!) or with a purchase of one of several tasty items?  I’d really appreciate it!

Information of the sale items are below.  Or if you prefer to donate with a check that’s perfect too!  The last day to submit your order is September 30.

Oh, and by the way, those butter braids are gooooooood.  We just pulled our last one out of the freezer a few weeks ago, and boy, what a great weekend-morning treat!

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What is important?

Illustrations by Garth Williams (he also did the Little House books
Illustrations by Garth Williams (he also did the Little House books)

Andrew and I finished reading Stuart Little this afternoon.  For those of you who haven’t read this great book or who don’t remember the plot, the book ends with Stuart (a mouse) heading north to search for his missing friend, a lovely brown bird named Margalo.

As we turned the last page, there’s a pictures of Stuart driving north in his cute little car, and the last line is, “But the sky was bright, and he somehow felt he was headed in the right direction.”

Andrew paused and said, “What happens then??”  I told him that since the book ended, we’d have to write his own ending.  So we pulled out a pad of paper, and he wrote out, “Stuart finds Margalo.”  So sweet.  Such a wonderfully sweet boy!

Earlier in the book, we ran across a line that had been one my mom quoted.  I read it out loud to Andrew a couple times, and I thought I’d share it with you!  In this chapter, Stuart (a mouse, remember) has taken on the job of substitute teaching a class of school children.

Everyone’s eyes lit up with excitement to see such a small and good-looking teacher, so appropriately dressed.

After some humorous preliminaries, they get down to business. Stuart announces that the world gets into a lot of trouble because it has no chairman.

“I would like to be Chairman of the world myself.”

“You’re too small,” said Mary Bendix.

“Oh, fish feathers,” said Stuart. “Size has nothing to do with it. It’s temperament and ability that count. The Chairman has to have ability and he must know what’s important. How many of you know what’s important?”

Up went all the hands

“Very good,” said Stuart . . . . “Henry Rackmeyer, you tell us what is important.”

“A shaft of sunlight at the end of a dark afternoon, a note in music, and the way the back of a baby’s neck smells if its mother keeps it tidy,” answered Henry.”

“Correct,” said Stuart. “Those are the important things. You forgot one thing though. Mary Bendix, what did Henry Rackmeyer forget?”

“He forgot ice cream with chocolate sauce on it,” said Mary quickly.

“Exactly,” said Stuart. “Ice cream is important.”

Mom often quoted E.B. White as saying that one of the most important things in life is the way a baby’s neck smells if its mother keeps it tidy.  I agree.

First apple orchard outing of the season

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We took our first outing to the Door Creek apple orchard on Sunday afternoon.  Pictures are in the gallery.  This past month has been full of simply perfect weather.  It’s been dry, warm, and sunny.  Perfect for being outside.  I’ll bet farmers would enjoy a bit of rain, but from my perspective, it’s ideal.

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Our apple orchard outing was short…we zipped over, picked some Earliblaze (for a pie) some Courtlands (for apple sauce), and then we purchased a pre-picked bag of Honeycrisps.  Andrew wasn’t interested in going down to the pond or heading up the hill to visit the sheep, so we then zipped on back home.  In and out with no fussing:)  Now we’re sipping on delicious apple cider and munching lots of apples.  I bet we’ll need to go back soon!

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PS.  Lisa, we’d love to go out to the orchard with you and Bubs sometime.  Maybe next weekend??

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IMG_2917 Ahh, fall.  I do love the fruits of autumn!

Money management

Photo by undoneclothing http://www.flickr.com/photos/undoneclothing/
Photo by undoneclothing http://www.flickr.com/photos/undoneclothing/

Finances are a topic that just isn’t talked about much in our society.  It’s generally considered a very private, personal thing.  Even with my good friends – we don’t often have conversations about money.   I understand the reasons why, but I also think that being more open to talking about money would benefit our society in general.  With all the people drowning in debt or experiencing significant stress because of hidden money woes, I think smart money talk would be helpful.

I specifically think that it’s helpful to me to hear about how families make their finances work.  In addition to filling my mind with thoughts of all the neat things I could do or make or buy, I like to see what people don’t do.  What kinds of things do families forgo or made-do with so they can live within their means?

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An open letter

To all those with whom I communicate via email:

I apologize for my regular lack of response to your kind notes.

I’ve just spent the last two hours going through hundreds of old emails (I’m actually writing this post at 12:30am), and it’s embarrassing…simply embarrassing…how many informative, questioning, consoling, interesting emails have gone unanswered.

My only consolation for you is that you’re in good company.

Yikes.

~Althea

Andrew’s many faces

Andrew, as a general rule, does not like me to take photographs of him.  And, in general, he is pretty adamant about that sentiment.  But the other day (when I was taking pictures of Sylvia’s tower), he decided he wanted some pictures of his various silly faces.  He did this back in February with Bryan.  The results make me smile.

Goofy:

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Excited…

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Sad…

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Scared…

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And then, one photo Andrew took… (as I held my hands under the camera lest he dropped it!)

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I hope you feel many of the first two emotions today!

Read-aloud – and new flowers

Here’s our read-aloud of the week.  I am loving reading Andrew chapter books!

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In other news, my clematis on the front porch is just breaking into bloom.  It’s really grown big this year.  Look at how much of the porch it covers!

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The first of the buds just opened last night.

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I just checked, and it looks like last year they bloomed on the same weekend!

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It's so beautiful!