Wedding week!

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Saturday is the day!  My brother Michael and our lovely Lisa are getting married in six days:)  They’ve been engaged for two years, but somehow when I turned the calendar to October, it seemed shocking that the big day was neigh.

Lisa and Michael have done a wonderful job planning this wedding.  They’re making it sweet and personal and they are organizing all the details, and yet it seems like it’s remained a fun activity…from my perspective, the bride is handling all these last week stresses with remarkable aplomb.

Early October has to be my favorite time of year (don’t tell May).  Right now the sun is shining through the leaves of our maple tree, and the light is all golden because the leaves are just beginning to be tinted with honey and rust.  Our view from our dining table shows five or six maples, all in the green glory, but now, inextricably changing to reds and purples and yellows.  I love these early weeks of color.  Such an amazing time of year.

Photo of the nine-springs e-way by Madison Guy at Flickr
Photo of the nine-springs e-way by Madison Guy at Flickr

If the weather cooperates, the ceremony will be held outdoors and the wedding reception will be in the nature center.  A large tall-grass prairie surrounds the nature center, and there’s a playground nearby that I think my kids will enjoy.  It should be a relaxed, beautiful time.  Stay tuned for pictures of pumpkins and a beautiful bridal couple in the prairie (please weather, cooperate!).

For those of you attending the festivities, here’s a link to a map and directions.

If you’re coming to the wedding, it’ll be great to see you there!

All in a day

When I was at Carleton last weekend for my Alumni Adventures Committee meeting, I received a gift.  I’ve been the (very distracted by small children) chair of the committee for the last couple years, and I’ve been serving on the committee in general for five years.  This was my last in-person meeting, and as a farwell gift, the committee gave me a book.  All In A Day, by Cynthia Rylant and illustrated by Nikki McClure.

It’s a lovely, joyous book.  It reminds me of some of my favorite passages from Anne of Green Gables and from Laura Ingalls’ On the Shores of Silver Lake.

And the illustrations!  Nikki McClure is a pretty new illustrator to me, and I am in love, love, love with her.

The author, Cynthia Rylant, has written umpteen-gillion books, and many of them are very special.   This one, though, has to be my favorite.

The books starts,

A day is a perfect piece of time
to live a life,
to plant a seed,

Then later…

A day is all you have to be,
it’s all you get to keep.

So live it well, make it count,
fill it up with you.
The day’s all yours, it’s waiting now…
See what you can do.

Such a lovely book!  I encourage you to go out and check it out yourself!

Joe’s a newspaper man

My baby brother (note how that introduction elevates his competency and acknowledges his adult-ness) has written a couple articles for his college newspaper, the Bowdoin Orient.  The most recent article was just published on Friday.

Here’s an opening excerpt from his article.

In the debate about guns, as in so many others, neither side is willing to acknowledge the salient points and reasonable objections of their ideological opponent. Pro-gun enthusiasts believe that gun regulation is a fundamental violation of the right to self-defense and simply another case of government intrusion. Those who want more gun regulation want to prevent guns from getting into schools and the hands of criminals. read more

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On the road…

I feel a little twitchy because I haven’t written a blog post in a few days.  Egad!

I’m currently sitting in the Alumni Guest House at Carleton, getting ready for my second day of Alumni Adventures Committee meetings.  I just love Carleton.  And I so enjoy working with the people on this committee.  This is my last in-person meeting (I still have a year of monthly conference calls), and being here on campus, meeting with faculty, discussing possible trips to amazing destinations…it all feels a little final.

While I drove away from my family on Thursday, I really didn’t want to go.  It’s funny how crazy the kids can make me feel sometimes, but as I was driving away, I just kept wanting to turn the car around so I could help put them to bed and then snuggle with Bryan and watch a new episode of Mad Men.  I like my family:)

I was just able to log on to the internet this morning, and I found a couple wonderful emails waiting for me.  The first is from Bryan:

I just had to tell you that Andrew peeked his head into Sylvie’s room tonight as I was reading her books and he asked if he could read a story to Sylvia.  She said yes and got down and sat on his lap on the floor.  They flipped through a board book and Andrew read the words and Sylvia turned the pages.  When they were all done I suggested Sylvia say “Thanks” and give Andrew a hug.  Sylvia stood up in her little footie pajamas and gave Andrew a nice, sweet hug.  It was just about the most precious thing I could imagine!  I had to share 🙂

The second is from Andrew himself:

Mommy, we really miss you. We were just watching Robin Hood and we just stopped. We had oranges, bunny crackers and hot chocolate for a snack.  We were playing outside and it was very cold.  We can’t wait to see you. 

Love, Andrew, Sylvia, & Bryan

I head back to Madison tonight, but instead of going home, I’m going to Lisa’s for her bachlorette party!  Yay!  It’s an 80’s theme slumber party:)  Her wedding is a week from today.  Wooooohooo!

So Bryan’s doing solo parent duty for three bedtimes and over two days.  Send him a little extra love!  He’s wonderful:) 

Thanks, Hon.

~Althea

A penny for the coffee, a penny for the tea

This post is the third in my money management series.  To start at the beginning, see post one: money management, post two: housing, and post three: food matters here!

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Last Friday night (cool person that I am) I spent a couple hours at our grocery store – Woodman’s – with my shopping list, coupons, and a clipboard in hand.  My mission was to record the prices of the products we most often buy and to also record prices of some cheaper (but less sustainable or “responsible”) products.

You all had some great thoughts and suggestions about food, and I put some of it to the test.

For those of you not in the area, Woodman’s is a warehouse-type grocery store.  The shopping experience is…I’d say…not pleasant.  It’s also the cheapest place I know of to shop for groceries.  In the past, Bryan and I decided to cut our grocery bill (maybe $10/week) by shopping here instead of at Copps and the Willy Street Co-op.  It was a trade-off that allowed us to keep purchasing the food items we wanted (although the produce really does kind of suck).

I wanted to find out if buying all my toiletries, organic groceries, and cleaning supplies at Woodman’s was the best strategy, or if I could get some of the same items for less money elsewhere.  I found that a few toiletries (deodorant, contact solution, and tooth paste) were all actually cheaper at Woodman’s (the contact solution was $7 instead of $8) than at Walgreen’s.  Organic milk, Annie’s mac & cheese, and 7th Generation diapers were about equally priced at the Willy Street Co-op (which I’d say specializes in organic and local products).  So overall, I’d say that I’m doing pretty well by doing all my shopping at Woodman’s.  I’d love to buy more at the Co-op or at Trader Joe’s, but I feel like I’m saving a bit by doing it this way…and that’s allowing me to buy more of the products that I love.

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Several of you suggested that I consider using coupons.  Some of you were shocked to hear that I have never clipped coupons.  I like the 20% off Gymboree or Macy’s coupons I get in the mail, but I really can’t think of a time I have clipped grocery coupons.  But, hey, I’m willing to try.  So I spent a couple hours looking online at various coupon sites.  There are hundreds of them.  The NY Times did a good article last week on how people are getting into clipping coupons again.  I was hoping to find a site where I could enter in all the brands of food that I like and they would let me know when manufacturer coupons became available.  As far as I can tell, no such site exists.  Instead, I found myself reading through hundreds of coupons for products I don’t want (mostly processed foods), and I just felt like I was reading advertisements.  I had a bit better luck by going directly the websites for a couple brands I like (Organic Valley milk and Cascade Farms organic frozen vegetables).  So I saved a couple dollars using coupons for the first time.  Woodman’s doesn’t have store coupons (or big advertised store sales), so I don’t think that the coupon route is going to be a huge saver.  If I wasn’t as picky…if I didn’t want a certain brand of yogurt or breakfast bars or soup…I think coupon clipping would be a lot more of a money saving technique.  But after doing research into brands and rather carefully deciding which ones I most want to support, I don’t like to switch brands to save $0.30.  Ahh, decisions, decisions.

Next I did a comparison of four products: Coffee, diapers, milk, and eggs.  Here’s what I found.

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Hazard: Fruity Pebbles ahead

I’d like to paint a picture for you.

Imagine for a moment that you’re in the grocery store, walking down the cereal aisle, contemplating your breakfast selection.  As you meander along, you are startled to see in front of you, on the ground, body curled tightly around a box of cereal, a little boy.  He’s maybe four years old.  Cute, with blond, curly hair.  He’s obviously very committed to this cereal box.  The boy’s mother seems to be less committed to this cereal box and appears to be trying to reason with him from nearby.  You can see immediately that this isn’t going anywhere fast.  So you give the mom a quick smile, steer around the boy-on-the ground, and continue on your way.

I didn’t realize the potential humor in this situation until I retold it to Bryan this evening.  Now I wish I’d pulled out my camera and snapped a few pictures.

fruity-pebbles-cerealAs we were picking up our O’s and granola at Woodman’s today, Andrew scooted away and came back clutching a box of Fruity Pebbles to his chest.  His eyes were big and bright.  He. Wanted. Them.

I told him that they did indeed look cool, but that we weren’t getting them.

Andrew clutched them closer to his breast and declared his adoration, his NEED for this cereal.

I told him to put the box back because it was under no circumstances coming home with us.

Andrew calmly lay down on the ground and curled his body around the box in the fetal position.

I explained to Andrew-on-the-ground that the cereal he had picked wasn’t healthy and wouldn’t help him grow big and strong and that we don’t bring un-healthy foods into our home (note to self: chocolate chips are healthy).

The Andrew/cereal box shape on the floor didn’t move.  People navigated their shopping carts around him.

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ZAP! uh, new microwave time

Last night I attempted to use the microwave to melt some butter for the corn bread batter.  Mmm corn bread and chili on a windy, fall evening.

Instead of melting my butter, the microwave made a spooky crackling zap noise.  Then it appeared to work – lights on, turn-table rotating – but after a minute, the butter was still cold.  This morning I tried it again and there was a loud electrical snapping noise.  Still no food-warming.  I called a repair shop, and they said it was probably the magnetron*.  She said repairing it costs about $300.  Hmmm, the replacement microwaves I looked up online looked to be about $300.

Looks like our Home Improvement budget item is going to see a bit of use!

* Definition: A microwave tube in which electrons generated from a heated cathode are affected by magnetic and electric fields in such a way as to produce microwave radiation used in radar and in microwave ovens. (from Answers.com)

Pumpkin patch (trip #1)

It was a stunningly beautiful September day today.  Sylvia and I headed out for a little girl-time late this morning, and we ended up joining up with Sarah, Wes, and Charlie for a trip to the pumpkin patch.  I’ve never been to Eplegaarden on a weekend, and it was (I think it’s fair to say) a madhouse.  Lines and crowds galore!  And also lots of pumpkins, apples, berries, a hay ride, a spook house, etc, etc, etc.

Sarah, Wes, and I had lots of fun watching our one-year-olds explore the pumpkin patch.  Photos are in the gallery.  A few sweet samples can also be found below.  Hooray for autumn!

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Terry’s trip

Terry is going to return back home from a month-long trip on the 29th.  He’s been exploring Maine, New Hampshire, Vermont, and Quebec City on a Haller-esque (manic, “We’re not here to have fun!  We’re here to see and do as much as humanly possible!”) driving trip.  You can read his blog and see some of his lovely pictures here.

A couple days ago, Terry sent me the following note.  It made me smile, so I thought I’d share.

I am staying in perhaps the most mind-boggling hotel I have ever stayed in.  Calling it a “hotel” is something of a misnomer — it is a gilded age 110-room Vanderbilt mansion, and I am staying in a gorgeous room.  It is called Shelburne Farms, near Burlington Vermont.  It is an interesting blend of Terry (ultra posh, gorgeous in every respect) with Althea (nonprofit devoted to environmental
education and sustainability, nice).

Dinosaur train

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It’s a quiet Friday morning here in the Dotzour home.  Bryan made me coffee, and I’m finishing up my cup of latte while Andrew is watching a little PBS.  We’ve had morning activities every day this week, so today we’re taking it slow.  Andrew’s come up with the idea that on Fridays we’ll go to Bryan’s office and have lunch with him, so we’re going to start that tradition today.

Sylvia, who has no interest in the television, is bringing me dollies to put to “nigh nigh.”  That’s great with me.  Pediatricians recommend no television before age two.

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Sid the Science Kid and his gang

Our favorite PBS shows are Sesame Street, Sid the Science Kid, and Super WhySid the Science Kid is a cute show about a kid who loves learning about how the world works.  He makes lots of hypotheses and does experiments.  Good stuff!  Andrew loves Super Why…a show that helps teach kids things from letter recognition to reading easy words to rhyming to reading and spelling.  It’s perfectly suited to Andrew’s current interest (obsession) with beginning reading.  Although, come to think of it, we haven’t seen either of these shows most of the summer.

This morning we turned on the television set a bit before Sesame Street started, and we saw a new show called Dinosaur Train. It made me smile and laugh enough that I thought I’d share it with you.  We’ve been watching (sigh) The Land Before Time VIII recently, and while there’s nothing wrong with it, I’m not really a fan.  Dinosaur Train was particularly fun because it dealt with similar themes about friendship and life-lessons, but it was much nerdier and made me laugh.

superwhy-book-castThe show follows a young T. rex who is best friends with a (not really a dino) Pteranodon and is being raised by her family.  The two of them have silly adventures, and they talk a lot about what different dinos ate and what that meant about how they lived.  Sort of paleontology for four-year-olds.  One thing I thought was cool was that there’s a train that runs through several time tunnels from the Cretaceous to the Triassic and Jurassic periods.  They take the train to the different periods to meet new dinosaurs and to learn about them.

Here’s an article on the show for those who are interested in finding out more.

Now, off to our Friday!  Hope yours is a good one!

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