Playing with Dad

Father’s Day is coming up in a couple weeks, but my kids don’t need a special day to shower their daddy with love.  In fact, if their affections were a real rain shower, he’d be soaked.

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The light was so pretty a few nights ago, we did a little photo session.  More pics are in the gallery.

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Then the kids decided to act like manic wrestlers.

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After the grunting and roaring, there was some cuteness.

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You may have noticed that it looks like Andrew has drawn all over his body with markers.  This is, in fact, what he has done.  He was apparently being Boewolf, the ancient warrior.  He informed me several times that he was mean.  This could be told by the hearts with arrows through them well as by the unhappy faces =(   that he had drawn all over his legs.  Creativity and imaginative play thrives here at the Dotzour home!

Maine Vacation – Part VI: Relaxing at Acadia

Click here for Part I, Part II, Part III, Part IV, and Part V to hear the start of our story!

Monday was our last full day in Maine.  We woke up in our Bar Harbor hotel and headed out to Jordan’s to eat some Maine wild blueberry pancakes with Maine wild blueberry syrup.  A local couple sitting at a nearby table struck up a conversation, and they suggested we go try out the Wonderland trail.  Since the gentleman was a Bowdoin grad, we decided to follow his advice.  I’m glad we did!

The Wonderland trail was a nice 40 minute drive away, and we really enjoyed getting to see the landscape as we traveled.  One surreptitious aspect of our Maine visit is that it coincided exactly with the peak of lupine blossoms.  I’m a big fan of Barbara Cooney’s book Miss Rumphius (I’d bought it the last time I was in Maine), so to happen to be here at a time when lupines are covering the gardens and roadsides and knolls with purple and pink and white blooms was just fantastic.  They are the bluebonnets of Maine!

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10-05-31_Maine_051I’m a little worried that they aren’t native and I’m actually reveling in the beauty of an invasive non-native, but as a tourist, I think I’ll just enjoy my ignorance:)  Was Miss Rumphius making the world more beautiful or was she propagating invasives?  Shoot.  Darn you internet.

OK, on to other things…

We drove along, stopping to play on the rocks.

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10-05-31_Maine_065Sylvia needed close supervision to ensure her safety, but she also loved playing all the rocks!

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10-05-31_Maine_087At the Wonderland beach, we spent several hours exploring, sitting, and looking into the tide pools.  We found snails, oysters, lots of sea grass and kelp, and a flock of Eider ducks grunting just off shore.

10-05-31_Maine_090While Andrew roamed far and wide, Sylvia found a couple tiny rocks that she decided were babies.  She put them to bed, would wait a while, and then would go wake them up.  She’d cradle them in her hands and talk and sing to them.  No doll needed for this little girl:)

10-05-31_Maine_091After wonderful Wonderland, the kids slept in the car while I shopped a bit alone in Bar Harbor.  We all went to lunch, and I learned the pleasure of clams dipped in butter.  At first, I didn’t know to take off the “neck.”  The first one I ate was full of grit, and it was almost the last one I ate.  But then my waiter showed me how to remove the neck and dip it in brine and then in butter.  And I was hooked.  I can’t think of something yummier.  Of course, I could try dipping all sorts of food in butter and test, but steamed clams are now one of my favorite foods.

After lunch, we piled back in the car and drove the 2-3 hours back to Portland.  The kids did a great job with all our traveling, and while we were driving Bryan and I made a list of the 15 or so places we’d like to take the kids.  Now that they’re getting a little older, it seems like it will be fun!

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We woke up at 4:30am on Tuesday for our flight home.  The kids were, once again, delighted to be waking up in the middle of the night to travel:)  Despite getting stuck at LaGuardia for several extra hours due to a variety of mechanical issues, and thereby missing our flight from Detroit to Madison, we were able to get home only a couple hours after our scheduled flight.

Andrew has wistfully said several times, “I loved Acadia National Park!”

I feel so lucky that we were able to take them on that adventure.  Thanks, Joe, for picking a college in such a beautiful state!

Now we’re home for June…a month of birthdays and anniversaries!  Thanks for reading about our trip:)  I hope it was a little vacation for you too!

~Althea

Maine Vacation – Part V: Up to Bar Harbor

Click here for Part IPart II, Part III, and Part IV to hear the start of our story!

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After Joe’s graduation on Saturday, he packed his belongings into a truck, said goodbye to his friends, and joined our family at the cottages. The next morning, Joe drove down to Washington DC, where he will have an internship this summer…living with Heather and Michael.  Terry, Dad, Tom, Michael, Lisa, Maretta, Kyle, Heather, Michael, and Evie all drove down to Portland to catch their airplanes.  And Bryan, the kids, and I hopped in our car and headed north for our further adventure.

The drive was just beautiful!  Little New England towns sprinkled along the coast.  Peeks through the woods at the ocean and islands.  Harbor towns with white church spires rising above the green forest, beautiful homes, and sailboats and colorful buoys dotting the deep blue water.  I think that on our three-hour drive, our favorite little town was Camden.  So pretty!  So picturesque!  Wish we could have stayed there for a while.  It actually reminded us a lot of Bayfield, Wisconsin on Lake Superior!

When we arrived at Bar Harbor (a town on Mt. Desert Island where Acadia National Park is located), we stopped for lunch at a lovely outdoor cafe.  Andrew colored on a children’s menu, and that menu came with us for the rest of our journey.  Andrew declared (dozens and dozens of times) that it was a map that could tell us how to go all ways.  At one point, we asked for some wisdom from the all-knowing map.  Andrew said, “The lobster on the map says we should turn left.  … Or right.  … … … Or maybe go straight ahead.”

For a look at a real map of the park, click here.

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Following the map’s advice (or maybe not), we traveled down to Sand Beach in Acadia National Park.  Most of the coast line is really rocky, but in this cove, the beach was long with rough sand.  It was full of people…I can’t imagine what it must look like during the real tourist season!

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Sylvia was really worried about the water, so she and I sat on the beach and tried to keep the sand from getting on her (for some reason that became really important to her).  Andrew, meanwhile, was at the shoreline chasing the waves and then running from them.  I was busy with Sylvie, so I wasn’t able to get any pictures of Andrew, but he was so gleeful and joyful.  Over the course of the hour we were there, he played with lots of different kids as they ran toward and away from the waves.  Oceans are so cool!

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He had a little adventure at one point when he waded in a bit and the undertow pulled him down.  Before he could get up, a big wave splashed over him and pushed him up the shore…covering him with sand.  Bryan pulled him up right away, and it took him a moment to decide whether to be stunned or cry.  While he did cry a bit, he was back on the shore a bit later, having a blast…his scalp and ears full of gritty sand.  That night, the tub looked like a beach.

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After getting mostly dried off, we took a little trek up the Beehive trail.  Unlike some of the other trails we’d walked down, the part of the Beehive we hiked was made up of large boulders.  Bryan or I carried Sylvia, and Andrew bounded ahead.  He reminded me a little of a dog who is given the job he was bred to do.  A hound who’s been taken pheasant hunting or a collie who’s been given some sheep.  My little Andrew man was hopping about on those boulders like a mountain goat who has finally been released on a mountain.  It was a lot of fun to see.

I didn’t take my camera on that hike, but here’s a couple of us walking on some flat terrain…

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After our hike, we drove past some really lovely ocean views back up past Bar Harbor to supper at a Lobster Pound.There, we enjoyed the largest lobsters I have ever seen in my life.  One of them had a claw that had to be a pound on its own.

10-05-30_Maine_041This lobster pound was a neat place.  You stand in a line and order your lobster at the counter.  They stick the yummy crustaceans in these outdoor pots to boil.  You stand around for the 25 minutes or so that it takes for them to cook, and then you grab a picnic table or one of the little tables inside and chow down.  Expensive.  Casual.  SO YUMMY.  The kids weren’t too adventurous, but that just left more lobster for me and Bryan to devour.  And chow down, we did.

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10-05-30_Maine_044Well past the kids’ bedtimes, we rolled into our hotel, checked in, and got them to bed.  Sylvia slept in a bed for the first time.  There was actually a very nice crib for her to sleep in, but the room also had two twin beds, and she wanted to be just like Andrew.  While it took the kids a long time to settle down and go to sleep, they finally did, and I passed out while reading my book.  What a great day it was!

Maine Vacation Part IV: Graduation Day

Click here for Part IPart II, and Part III to hear the start of our story!

Friends.  One thing I found remarkable about visiting Bowdoin College and seeing a bit into Joe’s college experience was meeting his friends.  I went to Carleton College, which is a similar kind of place, and Joe and I are relatively similar kinds of people, but while I had perhaps four close friends and seven good friends at college…maybe two of whom I keep in close contact with (Hi Sarah and Wes!), Joe seems to have a large, very close community of friends who clearly adore each other.  I don’t think I’ve ever seen so much affection at a graduation before!

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Joe’s graduation was held outdoors on their lovely campus.  The graduates and teachers and alumni walked all around campus before the ceremony.

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While we sat and listened, the three little kids did very well (Andrew played on iPhones the entire time and Sylvia enjoyed some nice packages that Heather had put together for the girls).

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There are 105 photos from graduation, and you can find each and every one of them here.  If you’re so inclined, here’s a slideshow!

The speeches were all well done.  I particularly enjoyed the student’s speeches.  Here’s Joe receiving his diploma:

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Joe and me:

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The four kids and Dad:

10-05-28_Maretta_391Joe and Maretta ham it up.  They’re sooooo dramatic:)  More pics of this charade in the gallery.

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IMG_0292After this little family photo session, we met up with Joe’s friends and Maretta and I followed him around like paparazzi.  Hugging ahead!

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Here’s Joe with this year’s roommates: Marc, Sasha, and Lindsey

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And an earlier set of roommates:

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Here are the friends he might live with in DC:

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IMG_0276Joe, I am so glad that you had such a loving group of people with whom to surround yourself these last four years.  From our brief time together, they all seem like wonderful people.  I wish them all the best!!

Maine Vacation – Part III: LL Bean and Lobsters

Click here for Part I and Part II to hear the start of our story!

…After spending the afternoon at Lands End, we split our group.  Joe and Dad and Terry and Michael went to Joe’s Baccalaureate ceremony at Bowdoin.  The rest of us drove over to Freeport to visit the LL Bean mothership store.

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Joe and I had visited the store back in 2005, and for the past five years, as I browse their catalog, I’ve thought to myself, “I won’t order that now…I’ll wait until I go visit Joe and get it at the store!”  Well, it turns out that I never did visit Joe at school (sniff!), but I took full advantage of visiting the store this time.

I got the kids fleecey-lined hoodies (orange and purple).  Evelyn got a pink one.  I got a pretty green shirt for myself.  That’ll be my version of our Maine souvenirs.  Sylvia was tired (no nap for two days) and really, really, really wanted some pink flip flops that she found.  So she threw a class III tantrum as we were departing.  Ahh well.  Memories.

From LL Bean, we traveled back to Bowdoin where we met up with the Baccalaureate crew (who were running late because the fire-alarm had been pulled mid-ceremony by a wayward child) and headed to the all-school Lobster Bake.

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10-05-28_Maretta_237Sylvia had a bite of lobster and liked it, but then she didn’t want any more.  She was much more interested in eating just plain butter (see below as she finishes off a pat).  I sit nearby pretending not to watch.

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10-05-28_Maretta_240We headed back to the cottages to put the kids down for bed and to relax.  Joe headed back to his dorm for his last night as a student with his college friends.  Good night, Maine!  Thank you for sharing a wonderful day.

Maine Vacation – Part II: Visiting the coast

If you missed Part I, you can find it here!  I’ll start you out with a slideshow of photos of our first day in Maine.  There’s 100…sorry, I usually edit things down more, but I couldn’t.  I think 25 is a great number of photos to share.  100 is just me being lazy:)

After our Bowdoin College visit, Joe got us some yummy sandwiches from the Big Top DeliThe Goose sandwich was delicious and contained key words including “Gouda” and “avocado.”  Yum!  We took our sandwiches and drove from Brunswick to Lands End on Bailey Island…about 20 minutes from Joe’s school.


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Then we picnicked next to the ocean.  Ahh…

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After a day of air and car travel, spending several hours exploring a rocky, ocean shore was just the ticket.  We adjusted our schedule so we could stay and play longer.

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My brothers took Andrew down the rocky shore for some adventure, and Sylvia and I dipped our toes in the chilly salt water.

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Maine Vacation – Part I: Playing with my fam

Vacation Time!

Bryan, Andrew, Sylvia, and I flew out to Maine on Thursday, May 27.  We’ve been anticipating this vacation for months, and we were all so excited.  The kids now love waking up “in the middle of the night” (somewhere between 3:30 and 4:30am) to go on trips.  We had a long day of travel with layovers in Detroit and LaGuardia. However, Sylvia has really turned a traveling-corner, and both kids were champs.  We flew with my dad, and fortunately we all got in to Portland with all our bags (to avoid the checked bag fees, we had four suit cases and three backpacks.  Plus two carseats checked.  So much stuff!).  We met up with Terry, Tom, my sister Maretta and her husband Kyle (who live in St. Paul), my brother Michael and his wife Lisa, and our friends/”cousins” Heather, Michael, and little Evelyn (who live in DC).  For those of you who are counting, that makes 14 of us including Joe.  Quite a crew!

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I love being together with my family.  Makes me so happy.  I think we all particularly missed having Mom here for this occasion.  She’s our hub, and she would have so enjoyed the weekend and the successful launching of her last little chick.

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Terry found us some wonderful cottages to rent about 20 minutes from Bowdoin.  I think it’s fair to say that I was blown away by them.  They were beautifully decorated.  The kitchen was amazing.  The details were so thoughtful and well-crafted.  And yet they had a nice cottagy, not-too-big feel.  The 14 of us split between two cottages (we stayed at Cottage #516; The Calderwood), and we spent some lovely hours in the evening sitting by the fire or chatting on the porch looking out at the river.

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On Friday, we visited Bowdoin and explored a little of Maine.  Terry took me and Maretta and Heather to a wonderful yarn shop called Halcyon Yarn.  It was by far the biggest, most well-stocked yarn store I’ve ever had the pleasure of browsing.  Apparently they do most of their sales via internet and catalog, so look them up!  Terry found some un-spun cashmere fiber ($185/lb) that we enjoyed petting for a little while.  Maretta got a set of the Addi Turbo interchangeable knitting needles, and Heather got a book on knitting two socks at a time.  A very Heather thing to do:)  I got a kit to make felted balls with the kids.  Such pretty colors!  Should be fun!

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Then we met up with the rest of the gang, and Joe gave us a tour of Bowdoin and showed us his dorm.  Now the last time I was at Bowdoin, Joe was a high school senior and Andrew was three months old (see the album here!).  Joe loved Bowdoin, but he was rather scared out of his mind that he wouldn’t get in.  So it was really cool to have my second visit to Bowdoin be my happy brother showing us around the campus he has grown to know and love so much.  I’m really proud of him!

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Wow!  This post is getting long.  I’m going to take a break and come back at you with more details tomorrow.  In the meantime, if you’d like to see more pictures from our first day in Maine, you can see them (all 100 of them from day 1) here!

Hi! I’m back!

Dear Internet (friends and family),

I appologize for leaving you these last weeks.  You’ve been on my mind.  Occasionally, I write posts in my head about the cute things Sylvie is saying, the adorable way Andrew is being her big brother, the milestones that the kids are passing, the job changing that Bryan is going…and then I sit down and edit photos.  Because that, my friends, is what I have been doing these last weeks.  Fastly.  Furiously.  Editing.  Photos.  I finished the last of my Incredible Photography Month early last week, and then we packed up and headed for Maine for my brother Joe’s graduation from Bowdoin College.

I was up until midnight or one or two every night for weeks (except when I collapsed a few times at 8pm).  I had friends stopping in to help watch my kids so I could get a few extra hours of photo work in.  It was intense…and wonderful.  I think I feel most happy and alive and energized when I am focused and productive and a little over-worked.  It is a wonderful feeling.  Thanks to all my lovely clients who help me get that excellent high:)  And to my husband and friends for helping me meet my deadlines!

Our trip to Maine was wonderful…but that’s another post.  For now, I’ll share a few tid-bits about our life these last weeks.

We went to Wichita a couple weeks ago for Bryan’s mom’s mom’s funeral (that’s Grandma Harvey).  Sweet Grandma.  Such a lovely person she was.  Grandpa has since moved into an assisted living home with a lot of support from his kids.  Although the purpose and reason for our trip was a sad one, it sure was pleasant to see all of Bryan’s family again.  Plus we got to see cousins who we don’t see regularly.  Andrew and Sylvia really enjoyed playing with Bryan’s cousin’s children, and we had some really companionable meals and get-togethers. Photos from Wichita are in the gallery.

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Andrew had his last day of preschool at Monona Grove Nursery School.  He is so excited about going to Kindergarten in the fall, he can barely wait.  And he talks regularly about how Joe is graduating from college (“That means you’ve completed all the requirements,” he says) and he has graduated from preschool.  We (OK, maybe mostly I…Andrew’s a kid who lives in the moment) am going to miss the teachers and kids and parents.  Andrew’s years at Monona Grove Nursery School have been really special.  Luckily, Syliva will attend preschool there in a year-and-a-half!

In April, Sylvia transitioned rapidly from diapers to undies.  She’s a big girl now.  I haven’t changed a poopy diaper in months.  That, my friends, is a wonderful thing to be able to say.  4.75 years of diapers.  She was dry at night for a couple weeks, and then we had lots of accidents, so I decided it was better for me to sleep well at night than for her to be totally diaper-free.  Next step: a big girl bed.  Not sure when, but it’s coming:)

Andrew had a visitation for his new Kindergarten: Nuestro Mundo last week.  While Bryan and I learned about Kindergartner’s daily schedule, Andrew and the other soon-to-be kindergartners all went off to play with a teacher.  He came back with a picture he’d colored of a frog.  And he is SO EXCITED about his frog.  And his new school.  And coloring more frogs at his new school starting September 1.  Which, as far as he’s concerned, can’t come soon enough!

As a side note, do you know that kindergartners only get two recesses for part of the year?  Then it’s just one.  And lunch plus recess is 45 minutes.  That seems crazy.  How are kids going to learn if they’re in classrooms all day with such limited time to move and engage in free-play?  And the lunch/recess time seems like it’s setting kids up to shovel down their food as fast as possible.  Seems like a bad idea.  I liked this article on the importance placed on school lunch in France.  But other than those things, the school seems like it’s set up really nicely.  It made me a little bit stunned and frankly, ill to watch Andrew bound up the Elementary School staircase.  How did my baby become a boy?

Last week was also Eli’s 5th birthday.  We attended his birthday party and spent some time with him on his birthday morn.  Photos of our playtimes are in the gallery.  Andrew’s pretty giddy about the fact that it is now June and his own birthday is coming up!

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My sweetheart’s birthday was a couple weeks ago.  We were in Wichita for his birthday, and then when we returned home that week, we celebrated his birthday is lots of little ways.  The highlight was when we showed Bryan the hammock we’d gotten for him.  Andrew kept the secret for weeks, and Bryan was really excited.

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05-22-10_wichita_010 Bryan’s last day of work at OpGen was last Wednesday.  Thanks to all his co-workers for giving him a great send-off:)  He’s home with us all the rest of the week, and then he starts his new job on Monday, June 7.

I took lots of photos during our trip to Maine.  Stay tuned!

~Althea