A penny for the coffee, a penny for the tea

This post is the third in my money management series.  To start at the beginning, see post one: money management, post two: housing, and post three: food matters here!

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Last Friday night (cool person that I am) I spent a couple hours at our grocery store – Woodman’s – with my shopping list, coupons, and a clipboard in hand.  My mission was to record the prices of the products we most often buy and to also record prices of some cheaper (but less sustainable or “responsible”) products.

You all had some great thoughts and suggestions about food, and I put some of it to the test.

For those of you not in the area, Woodman’s is a warehouse-type grocery store.  The shopping experience is…I’d say…not pleasant.  It’s also the cheapest place I know of to shop for groceries.  In the past, Bryan and I decided to cut our grocery bill (maybe $10/week) by shopping here instead of at Copps and the Willy Street Co-op.  It was a trade-off that allowed us to keep purchasing the food items we wanted (although the produce really does kind of suck).

I wanted to find out if buying all my toiletries, organic groceries, and cleaning supplies at Woodman’s was the best strategy, or if I could get some of the same items for less money elsewhere.  I found that a few toiletries (deodorant, contact solution, and tooth paste) were all actually cheaper at Woodman’s (the contact solution was $7 instead of $8) than at Walgreen’s.  Organic milk, Annie’s mac & cheese, and 7th Generation diapers were about equally priced at the Willy Street Co-op (which I’d say specializes in organic and local products).  So overall, I’d say that I’m doing pretty well by doing all my shopping at Woodman’s.  I’d love to buy more at the Co-op or at Trader Joe’s, but I feel like I’m saving a bit by doing it this way…and that’s allowing me to buy more of the products that I love.

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Several of you suggested that I consider using coupons.  Some of you were shocked to hear that I have never clipped coupons.  I like the 20% off Gymboree or Macy’s coupons I get in the mail, but I really can’t think of a time I have clipped grocery coupons.  But, hey, I’m willing to try.  So I spent a couple hours looking online at various coupon sites.  There are hundreds of them.  The NY Times did a good article last week on how people are getting into clipping coupons again.  I was hoping to find a site where I could enter in all the brands of food that I like and they would let me know when manufacturer coupons became available.  As far as I can tell, no such site exists.  Instead, I found myself reading through hundreds of coupons for products I don’t want (mostly processed foods), and I just felt like I was reading advertisements.  I had a bit better luck by going directly the websites for a couple brands I like (Organic Valley milk and Cascade Farms organic frozen vegetables).  So I saved a couple dollars using coupons for the first time.  Woodman’s doesn’t have store coupons (or big advertised store sales), so I don’t think that the coupon route is going to be a huge saver.  If I wasn’t as picky…if I didn’t want a certain brand of yogurt or breakfast bars or soup…I think coupon clipping would be a lot more of a money saving technique.  But after doing research into brands and rather carefully deciding which ones I most want to support, I don’t like to switch brands to save $0.30.  Ahh, decisions, decisions.

Next I did a comparison of four products: Coffee, diapers, milk, and eggs.  Here’s what I found.

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Hazard: Fruity Pebbles ahead

I’d like to paint a picture for you.

Imagine for a moment that you’re in the grocery store, walking down the cereal aisle, contemplating your breakfast selection.  As you meander along, you are startled to see in front of you, on the ground, body curled tightly around a box of cereal, a little boy.  He’s maybe four years old.  Cute, with blond, curly hair.  He’s obviously very committed to this cereal box.  The boy’s mother seems to be less committed to this cereal box and appears to be trying to reason with him from nearby.  You can see immediately that this isn’t going anywhere fast.  So you give the mom a quick smile, steer around the boy-on-the ground, and continue on your way.

I didn’t realize the potential humor in this situation until I retold it to Bryan this evening.  Now I wish I’d pulled out my camera and snapped a few pictures.

fruity-pebbles-cerealAs we were picking up our O’s and granola at Woodman’s today, Andrew scooted away and came back clutching a box of Fruity Pebbles to his chest.  His eyes were big and bright.  He. Wanted. Them.

I told him that they did indeed look cool, but that we weren’t getting them.

Andrew clutched them closer to his breast and declared his adoration, his NEED for this cereal.

I told him to put the box back because it was under no circumstances coming home with us.

Andrew calmly lay down on the ground and curled his body around the box in the fetal position.

I explained to Andrew-on-the-ground that the cereal he had picked wasn’t healthy and wouldn’t help him grow big and strong and that we don’t bring un-healthy foods into our home (note to self: chocolate chips are healthy).

The Andrew/cereal box shape on the floor didn’t move.  People navigated their shopping carts around him.

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ZAP! uh, new microwave time

Last night I attempted to use the microwave to melt some butter for the corn bread batter.  Mmm corn bread and chili on a windy, fall evening.

Instead of melting my butter, the microwave made a spooky crackling zap noise.  Then it appeared to work – lights on, turn-table rotating – but after a minute, the butter was still cold.  This morning I tried it again and there was a loud electrical snapping noise.  Still no food-warming.  I called a repair shop, and they said it was probably the magnetron*.  She said repairing it costs about $300.  Hmmm, the replacement microwaves I looked up online looked to be about $300.

Looks like our Home Improvement budget item is going to see a bit of use!

* Definition: A microwave tube in which electrons generated from a heated cathode are affected by magnetic and electric fields in such a way as to produce microwave radiation used in radar and in microwave ovens. (from Answers.com)

Pumpkin patch (trip #1)

It was a stunningly beautiful September day today.  Sylvia and I headed out for a little girl-time late this morning, and we ended up joining up with Sarah, Wes, and Charlie for a trip to the pumpkin patch.  I’ve never been to Eplegaarden on a weekend, and it was (I think it’s fair to say) a madhouse.  Lines and crowds galore!  And also lots of pumpkins, apples, berries, a hay ride, a spook house, etc, etc, etc.

Sarah, Wes, and I had lots of fun watching our one-year-olds explore the pumpkin patch.  Photos are in the gallery.  A few sweet samples can also be found below.  Hooray for autumn!

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Terry’s trip

Terry is going to return back home from a month-long trip on the 29th.  He’s been exploring Maine, New Hampshire, Vermont, and Quebec City on a Haller-esque (manic, “We’re not here to have fun!  We’re here to see and do as much as humanly possible!”) driving trip.  You can read his blog and see some of his lovely pictures here.

A couple days ago, Terry sent me the following note.  It made me smile, so I thought I’d share.

I am staying in perhaps the most mind-boggling hotel I have ever stayed in.  Calling it a “hotel” is something of a misnomer — it is a gilded age 110-room Vanderbilt mansion, and I am staying in a gorgeous room.  It is called Shelburne Farms, near Burlington Vermont.  It is an interesting blend of Terry (ultra posh, gorgeous in every respect) with Althea (nonprofit devoted to environmental
education and sustainability, nice).

Dinosaur train

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It’s a quiet Friday morning here in the Dotzour home.  Bryan made me coffee, and I’m finishing up my cup of latte while Andrew is watching a little PBS.  We’ve had morning activities every day this week, so today we’re taking it slow.  Andrew’s come up with the idea that on Fridays we’ll go to Bryan’s office and have lunch with him, so we’re going to start that tradition today.

Sylvia, who has no interest in the television, is bringing me dollies to put to “nigh nigh.”  That’s great with me.  Pediatricians recommend no television before age two.

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Sid the Science Kid and his gang

Our favorite PBS shows are Sesame Street, Sid the Science Kid, and Super WhySid the Science Kid is a cute show about a kid who loves learning about how the world works.  He makes lots of hypotheses and does experiments.  Good stuff!  Andrew loves Super Why…a show that helps teach kids things from letter recognition to reading easy words to rhyming to reading and spelling.  It’s perfectly suited to Andrew’s current interest (obsession) with beginning reading.  Although, come to think of it, we haven’t seen either of these shows most of the summer.

This morning we turned on the television set a bit before Sesame Street started, and we saw a new show called Dinosaur Train. It made me smile and laugh enough that I thought I’d share it with you.  We’ve been watching (sigh) The Land Before Time VIII recently, and while there’s nothing wrong with it, I’m not really a fan.  Dinosaur Train was particularly fun because it dealt with similar themes about friendship and life-lessons, but it was much nerdier and made me laugh.

superwhy-book-castThe show follows a young T. rex who is best friends with a (not really a dino) Pteranodon and is being raised by her family.  The two of them have silly adventures, and they talk a lot about what different dinos ate and what that meant about how they lived.  Sort of paleontology for four-year-olds.  One thing I thought was cool was that there’s a train that runs through several time tunnels from the Cretaceous to the Triassic and Jurassic periods.  They take the train to the different periods to meet new dinosaurs and to learn about them.

Here’s an article on the show for those who are interested in finding out more.

Now, off to our Friday!  Hope yours is a good one!

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What our children teach us

I haven’t purchased that many books on child rearing…I check out lots from the library, but I’ve only bought a select few.  In some cases I buy them because I think I’ll want to refer back to them many times, or in this case, because they’re so wonderful that I know I’ll want to lend them to friends and to sip their goodness again and again.

Yesterday, I pulled from my shelf the book Mitten Strings for God: Reflections for Mothers in a Hurry by Katrina Kennison.  For my many secular friends, don’t fear, there’s no religious overtones:)  One of the book’s reviews says, “Inspirational and life-affirming, it offers reminders of what is of lasting value, such as grace, love, tranquility.”  I agree.

This afternoon, I flipped the book open and found myself reading the following passage.  It rang true, so I thought I’d share.

The fact is I’ve learned an enormous amount from both my children.  Different lessons from two very different temperaments, all of them valuable.  But it is true that Jack—forty-two pounds of spirit, vulnerability, curiosity, and sheer life force—has been my most demanding teacher, exposing all my weaknesses and requiring me to develop even greater fortitude.  In his passionate, head-long rush into life, he has shown me exactly where my rope ends, where my patience runs out, where my edges fray, where my own outer limits really are.  He taught me that in order to be an effective  and loving disciplinarian, I must first be able to control myself.

Sylvia’s, er, outbursts don’t often make me lose my temper.  More often I’m like a deer in headlights, carrying her around or sitting near her with a blank expression on my face and no ideas of what to do to make the situation better.   Her passions don’t tend to ignite my own, but they do make me lose my mind a bit.

A couple days ago, during our first down-pouring rain of the fall, Sylvia threw her…I don’t know…fourth tantrum of the morning, and I really kind of lost it.  We were walking home from Andrew’s preschool.  I plunked her in the soaking stroller, put her rain cover on, and walked her home.  She screamed, and I swore under my breath the whole way.  It was a low point.  As I was stomping home through the pouring rain with a leaky umbrella, I remember thinking that all of us have had unpleasant co-workers that make us want to change jobs.  It was too bad that mine was my own child.

But we got home, and I retrieved her poodle and paci (who have the power to soothe her when nothing else can).  Then I picked up my sweet, wet, shaky girl, and she put her little arms around her contrite, wet, shaky mom, and both of us held each other until we felt better.  Then we held each other a lot longer.  She’s a wonderful baby, an adorable kid.  And she’s making me a stronger person.  Look out world, here she comes!

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Mad Men

Bryan and I started watching the series Mad Men this week on Netflix.  We love it!  It’s a TV show about the advertising world on Madison Avenue in the 1960s.  The costumes and sets are wonderful, the dialogue is sharp and fast, and I care about the characters…even as they (already in the third episode of the first season) are on fast-tracks to destroy themselves.

Other favorite shows of ours include Six Feet Under, the first few seasons of Alias, The 4400, Dead Like Me, Battlestar Galactica, Deadwood, Firefly, Lost, Rescue Me, and Sex in the City.

At some point, we may watch The Wire, Rome, and that one about the capitol…West Wing.  Any recommendations from you?

Food matters

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Photo by http://www.flickr.com/photos/wiedmaier/

Hi!  Welcome to my third installment in my series on money management.  (See post one and post two:housing here!)  In an effort to spend a bit less and save a bit more, I’m taking a look at my family’s expenses.  I started big, and I’m working my way down.  However, our second biggest expense – Food – is such a big topic, I think I have the pieces of several posts floating around in my head.

First off, the details.  According to the analysis of Mint.com, our family around 20% of our money on food.   I’ve done some looking around, and it looks like the average American family spends 5-10% of their income on food…roughly half of that spent on groceries and half spent dining out. So we spend at least twice the average.  That’s a lot!

Granted, our Food category is pretty inclusive.  At the grocery store, we also purchase things like laundry detergent, diapers, light bulbs, Kleenex and toiletries, so those items are all lumped in with our grocery store purchases.  Even so, we spend an average of $160 each week on groceries.  Is this crazy?  How much does your family spend?

Isnt this great! Felt food by buggabugs on Etsy
Isn't this great! Felt food by buggabugs on Etsy

Here’s the rest of the picture.  As a family, we spend an average of $6/day eating out.  We spend about $4/week at coffee shops (this also includes ice cream at JavaCat!).  Over the last year, we paid $2,400 on food outside of the home.  Geesh!  It felt like we were being judicious in our choices about eating out, but that seems like a lot of money!

As we look for ways to curb spending, our Food category seems like  a critical one to examine since it comprises such a big chunk of our overall expenses.  We love our food, and for us, the food we eat has a lot to do with our values and the way we want to nourish our family and our world.

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I got a master’s degree in Natural Resource Policy and Behavior.  As an undergraduate at Carleton, I took classes in sustainable agriculture.  In my work at Gathering Waters, I did some work with the Federal Farm Bill.  Throughout these experiences, I’ve read and thought and talked extensively about conventional and more sustainable farming practices.

I’ve looked at the history and the current status of the US’s farm policy, and I’m acutely aware of how farm subsidies, school lunch programs, food-stamp programs, and even the food pyramid have in many cases lost the concept of feeding people real, fresh food that’s good for our bodies and our communities.  I’ve seen how difficult it is for people to change behaviors.  Perhaps most importantly, I’ve learned in my studies that since we live in a capitalist society, if we want things to change, we need to vote with our money.  I feel passionately about that.  No matter who I elect into office or what education programs I help create, the thing that matters the most is, collectively, the companies we support with our daily dollars.

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Image from the AP

I want to see a shift away from conglomerate farms.  I want farmers to earn a living wage.  I want farmers to use good, healthy farming practices.  I want lots of products offered in grocery stores that don’t contain trans-fat or high-fructose corn syrup or long lists of words I can’t pronounce.  I want to enjoy food that was raised or grown right nearby so I’m not encouraging so much long-distance transport of food and so I can support local farms.  I want my kids to know and expect their food to be real, healthy, and tasty.  To achieve those goals, I believe that I need to be a conscientious consumer.

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Photo by http://www.flickr.com/photos/latitudes/

Now I want to step back for a moment and give a disclaimer.  What I’m hoping to do in this post is to share some of my family’s values, which are then shaping the decisions we are making about how to spend our money.  We’ve come to these values over the course of many years, and they are personal and evolving.  I think everyone has the right to express their own values – be they political, religious, or of a foodie nature.  I just hope that no one read any judgmental tone in any of this, as none is intended.

So back to being a conscientious consumer…  Unfortunately, in general, I’ve found that purchasing food and products that promote the values I hold dear means I’m paying a premium.  But I’m willing to do it!  Since the time I was a young girl in the 1980s and learned about dolphin-safe tuna, I’ve felt that it’s worthwhile to spend a few extra cents to purchase products that are doing good.

Ten years ago, Bryan and I bought all conventionally-produced groceries.  We now spend maybe half of our grocery budget on what I’ll call non-traditional food items…things are either organic or local or higher quality.  In my next post, I’m going to take a look at some of those items (milk, eggs, diapers, coffee) and look at our budget implications of spending our money this way.

My hope is that if we have to change some of our spending patterns, we can find strategic areas to cut so we can continue to live by our values while saving some money in the near-term.Let me know what you think about all this!  How much does your family spend on groceries every week?  Are there more expensive things you buy that think are really worth while?  What grocery items are most important to you?

I look forward to hearing what you have to say!

Opportunity to support Andrew’s preschool!

Andrew goes to a simply wonderful preschool.  It’s a non-profit, parent cooperative, and it’s very play-oriented and low-key and loving.  Since school started, Andrew’s been riding his bike to school (since it’s a block from our house!), and he’s once again LOVING it.

I think Monona Grove Nursery School is so great that I joined the board of directors this summer.  Being the treasurer has been a lot of work, but it feels so rewarding to be helping to run a school that is doing so many great things for so many kids.

As a not-for-profit organization, the school relies on fund-raisers as well as student tuition to make ends meet.  Would you, lovely reader, consider supporting this great organization either with a donation of $10 (or more!) or with a purchase of one of several tasty items?  I’d really appreciate it!

Information of the sale items are below.  Or if you prefer to donate with a check that’s perfect too!  The last day to submit your order is September 30.

Oh, and by the way, those butter braids are gooooooood.  We just pulled our last one out of the freezer a few weeks ago, and boy, what a great weekend-morning treat!

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